Nobody likes to be invisible to others, although sometimes going unnoticed is a good idea … but it is one thing to go unnoticed when you choose it and quite another thing is to appear invisible to other people . There is nothing worse than being somewhere and feeling like no one notices you. Feeling invisible is not the same as feeling worthless, but it is certainly not pleasant.

People who feel that they are invisible often have good reasons why they feel that way. It’s not that they’re spoiled and feel like they’re just not getting enough attention … The problem with feeling invisible is that we’ve forgotten ourselves. This is what it’s really like to feel invisible.

I forgot you were here

“I forgot you were here” can be a phrase that when listening to it sticks like a sharp knife in the heart . Maybe you don’t mind being quiet and silent, and maybe you think it’s partly your fault that people don’t remember you were there. The thing about the claim of being forgotten to be there is that it doesn’t make a person suddenly change and be loud and make their presence known.

This may make you feel like you have to take off a shell again to protect yourself from negative feelings . Just because you don’t want to be the center of attention doesn’t mean that a little attention can’t be enjoyable for you. It’s nice to feel that your presence is felt and that people like to have you around. It’s not nice to feel like people wouldn’t care if you weren’t there.

Esteem

There are a number of feelings that come with being an introvert . You want to accept yourself as you are because there is no use wishing you were something that you are not. That said, growing up an introvert, you may never have minded having few friends as long as they were the right ones.

Maybe when you are in certain situations you feel more or less comfortable, but it is not something that has worried you too much until now. You must be yourself and not suffer for being someone you are not.

Sometimes it can seem impossible to have the best possible self-esteem when you don’t like your personality. It is not something as easy to change as other parts of yourself. The most important thing about all this is that if you feel invisible it is something you choose and it is not bad. You just have to accept who you are and not be someone you are not just for others to accept you.

Acceptance

Accepting yourself is difficult, but it is necessary.  We all have things about ourselves that we are not fans of. Whether or not we change those things or just accept them, they are important because those things are part of us.

When you accept this you will feel invisible less often because you will have realized that there is nothing wrong with you. People love you for who you are, don’t let the people around you forget you’re there and you won’t feel invisible. Never more. You just have to get out of your comfort zone to find the magic and stop being afraid, accept yourself and everything will change for the better.

If you ever shut up in a new place it is normal, do not force yourself to do things you do not want, but if you want … you just have to get out of your comfort zone to discover how capable you are in every way. You will realize how others want to spend their time with you because you are an amazing person. In this way and almost without realizing it, you will begin to enjoy more of your environment, the people in your life and yourself.

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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