When you are in a relationship or love someone, it is often demonstrated in addition to deeds and spoken words, also through written words. New technologies allow us to have a much more continuous contact with the people we care about, although of course, you have to know where the limits are so as not to seem too absorbing.

When overused, written text can be overwhelming for the recipient, so finding the middle ground is crucial. It is necessary to take advantage of the fact that we live in a time when the written text is something very natural for people , almost like riding a bicycle. Thanks to this you can make your text messages fill the heart of the person who receives it.

Also, if you are a shy person, it can also help you break the ice or be able to say things that may be more difficult to say in person. Do not miss these tips to seduce the person you like with text messages, or simply maintain a wonderful bond with that special someone.

Small doses of information

Be subtle about your flirting technique. Flirt, but don’t make it seem obvious that you like him. One of the best ways to get a guy to love you via text message is by giving flirty information clues to make his mind wander. Joke about the fact that you just showered because you sweated a lot in your training … but forget about being too direct.

Be patient in the answers

Don’t text her three times in a row if she doesn’t respond quickly to your first message.  He may be busy with something important and just can’t get back to you right away. It may not respond as much as you would like, and nothing happens. However, if you’re impatient, you can come off as too absorbing, which is a big no-no if you’re trying to find ways to make someone feel special through texting.

Don’t write too much

Whatever you do, avoid writing extremely long sentences when you’re chatting with that person.  You will lose interest fairly quickly and feel overwhelmed. Respond with simple and short texts. Texts that allow you to ask more questions. If not, it will simply answer as many questions as it can grasp and there will be no more questions to ask. Your conversation will end too soon.

Never reply with just “ok”

Responding with an “ok” shows a lack of interest and that person will think that you do not care and will also lose interest. There is a fine line between writing too much and saying too little. Participate in a conversation with that person without responding in short sentences. Ask him questions too and show an interest in his life. In this way that person will feel flattered and flattery is always a good option.

Don’t ask him out

Don’t make the first move, don’t ask him out first if the recipient of your messages is someone you like. Never seem so interested in desperately asking her if she wants to see you . It’s what you are supposed to do. There are people who enjoy chasing something that is difficult for them to catch. Make it too easy and he’ll get bored too soon. Make it too difficult and he will also give up. Find the middle ground and you will master how to make a person want to be with you through text messages and count the hours to see you.

Call him by his name

Make him feel important by calling his name when you text him. Make sure you don’t use it in every text as it will appear as if there is something wrong with you. However, it is important to make him understand that you are familiar with who he is … His mind will start to wander and it may even end up driving him crazy simply by doing something that seems small and insignificant.  Sometimes the smallest things have the biggest impact …

Mention what you remember if he writes to you first

Boost his ego a bit and make him feel important by telling him that you remember him; if he texts you first . It won’t make him feel like you’re intruding, and he’ll most likely open up to you more. It’s a great way to introduce a little flattery and brighten up your day. Also, what better way to get a person to pay attention to you than by boosting their ego a bit ? Nobody becomes bitter by a candy!

That the compliments are not lacking

Anyone gets a good compliment from time to time. Remind him how handsome he is or how strong his arms look. Complimenting him by making him feel good about himself is a great way to connect with others. You can even add some flirtation by telling her how good her arms would look if she wrapped them around you … Although it seems somewhat simple, it works very well.

Make him feel important

Make him feel important but knowing where the limits are. There are people who want what they cannot have so to make him see that being with you is little possible, will make him even more obsessed with you … in case you want him to be your partner. Have your own plans so that they don’t get tired of trying, make them feel important and they won’t give up.

Make him see that you always have things to do, that you are a busy person and when you give him your time it is because he is someone important in your life.

Emoticons: the righteous

Express what you are trying to say by adding emoticons to your messages … but also do not fill the messages with them because then they can hinder good written communication. You can mean that something appears in a certain way, however, above the text, it may appear as if it is being short or uninteresting; which is the last thing you want, emoticons help you seem more interested and the conversation a little more lighthearted.

With these tips you can make your text messages much sweeter and that whoever receives it feels that it really is special for you … whether it is someone you flirt with, if it is your partner or your best friend.

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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