When a romantic relationship begins, there are people who decide to go slow in the relationship, either to make sure that the relationship will go well, that the other person is compatible or to avoid being hurt emotionally if they have already been hurt in the past. But start a relationship partner and do it too slow may not be the best choice for two people, there are some cons to consider.

We are not saying that you have to start a relationship and go fast for everything to go well, not at all. You simply have to let the feelings flow without this being a problem for both parties … If you try to prevent these feelings from emerging by going slower than normal, the relationship could be seriously damaged and could even cause the following problems. ..

You may not know how you feel

If you hold back your feelings and prefer your relationship to be slower than normal, then it is more than likely that both of you are not sure how you feel and that you are dating too long without knowing that you are in a relationship. It would only confuse you more in your feelings .

Also, taking it easy could be hiding the fact that both you and this person aren’t really meant to be together.  In reality, you could be totally wrong in a variety of ways. You won’t notice that for a while because you only see each other once a week or have a date several times a month. You are both busy with other things and focused on other aspects of your lives, such as career, friendships, and family. Instead of dedicating time and effort to the relationship, you are thinking about other things … and this will not make you have a good emotional bond between you.

You may not be sure how they feel about each other, perhaps because you see too little of each other and you go too slow, even if you love each other a lot and don’t know how to be apart for long. You won’t get a chance that you could really end up loving each other and wasting your time.

You will not experience the magic of love

Taking it easy doesn’t lead to a lasting romance for another reason: It doesn’t allow you to experience the magic of falling in love. This is a super important point since love is something very beautiful.  People want to be so in love that they are willing to go on many dates to find love, and it is something that people dream of experiencing.

When you only date someone once in a while, you are putting a lot of emotional distance between the two of you. They will not fall in love because they rarely see each other and you can rarely have that special contact. Love takes a lot of time and effort, and if you are not putting the time and effort into the new relationship, things will not improve. The reason couples will say they love each other after just two to three months is that they have been cultivating a bond and spending tons of time together. Even though it’s been two or three months and that doesn’t seem like a long time, it feels like a lot longer.

A relationship can’t keep up that slow

A relationship won’t work if two people take it easy. They are not committed to each other and they are not putting in enough effort. While you can still see your friends and do things that you enjoy, of course, you don’t want to act like this new person in your life isn’t important to you.  You want to allow the relationship to develop naturally and at the rate it wants to go. 

For a lot of people, that’s pretty quick because when you finally meet someone awesome, you’re pretty into them right from the start. If you’ve spent two years taking it easy , how do you know if you really want to be together? How do you know it’s time to get married or move in together when you’ve only been seeing each other once a week? These are all important things to think about …

We all want to find love and we want that love to last as there is nothing worse than heartbreak or feeling like we are dating someone for longer than we should have. When we think we need to take it easy with a new partner, we are not really doing the best we can do for ourselves. We are ruining our chances of finding true love.

The truth is that when we want to find a romance that will last, we cannot take it easy. We have to be open to seeing that person as much as we can, letting him into our lives and being a part of his life as well. It is the only way to ensure that it is tested whether or not something really can work … 

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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