On many occasions women feel pressured and this may happen from other women. It is necessary for women to stop criticizing each other to start supporting each other and helping us shine, because each and every one of us is wonderful just the way we are. Too many women look others up and down and judge each other. Whether in a new job or anywhere else.

What is it that makes women have this natural conflict instead of supporting each other and helping each other to be the best version of themselves? Many women are jealous of each other due to their own insecurities. And this starts too early. Most of the time, we don’t even know that we crave that attention .

Women against women

Your twenties should be a time to have fun and live a carefree life, but instead it is full of these kinds of situations. When you are young, self-confidence is often false. Before maturing there is a time of constant doubts, uncertainty and discovering who you are. Your twenties can be fun, but they are also difficult. It is even more difficult when women judge each other instead of hugging and supporting each other.

It is necessary that women, instead of taking off the crown of queens, help each other to place it properly. We can help each other to be the best version of ourselves, so let’s stop tripping ourselves. These three ways of change will help us all, you just have to do a little bit of your part!

Don’t judge the looks

Women have different bodies, they have different skin tones and also their own hair. Some women are extremely feminine, embracing the world of pink as if there is no tomorrow; while others detest it. Of course, many women don’t fit any standard, they are just themselves .

The only unifying factor? We are all women, we all face the same struggles, the same growing insecurities and the same pursuit of happiness . If we stop judging other people’s looks and comparing ourselves to the media representation of the ideal body, we can remove some of that pressure and something amazing will start to happen. We can feel better about ourselves and help each other shine.

Stop competing for attention

If you spend the whole night worrying about how good your friend looks , you only ruin your own night. Jealousy really is an unattractive trait. Women to shine must have confidence in themselves. Don’t complain about life and just enjoy it . Instead of being jealous of the girl who has a fantastic figure, look at her for inspiration and maybe join her at the gym. You think you are competing with other women, but in reality you are competing with yourself. You have the power to be confident, and a good way to do that is to relax and focus on your own great qualities. Once you have this confidence in yourself, you will be truly radiant.

Be yourself

Sounds simple right? But very often, women observe how other women behave, comparing themselves to the woman who is happily married, the woman who has just been promoted at work, or the woman who seems to be enjoying the single life much more than she does. This leads to contempt and even social exclusion.

The happiest woman is the one who truly embraces her independence and moves on, living life how she wants rather than how she thinks she should. The only person who can help you reach your full potential is you. Therefore, stop worrying about what you are doing and be yourself; Only then can you be truly happy and attract the right attention from both sexes.

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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