Perhaps you have ever felt bad because you have failed and you think it was an unforgivable failure . What you should put in perspective is that even if you fail today, tomorrow the Sun will rise again over the horizon. Maybe you have to life has to be a straight line, but nothing could be further from the truth. The line has obstacles and sometimes, we choose the wrong paths, but everything is fine because it takes you where you need to be.

All the experiences that you live there are other people who have also lived them. All are experiences that help us grow, as long as you are aware of them. In life you will find setbacks and you will make mistakes , but those inevitable or avoidable failures are learnings for you.

Your setbacks are not failures

If setbacks are failures, neither your mistakes define who you are. It is important to learn to accept life as it comes and shape it to our liking. Life is the present moment and even if you don’t want to see or realize it, it passes as a sigh. As the popular saying goes: “Shooting stars say that shooting is us.”

There are days that you feel better if you had not gotten out of bed, but you will also find other days that you will eat the world. This is the time to stop and reflect on life. Think about what your next moves will be despite having made a mistake before.

Setbacks are part of life and it is important to accept that they happen in order to find solutions that improve where you are. Do not be angry about what happens, think about what you can do to make what happens next better for you.

That you do not lack perseverance

Perseverance will end all setbacks. Even if negative things happen in your life, if you persevere in what you set out to do, you will be able to achieve the goals you have in your mind. Some days will be worse than others, but with perseverance you will realize that it is all worth it.

The only way to get over it is to keep going. If you stop too long and reflect on everything that has gone wrong in your life, without thinking about the good that may be about to happen, your heart will be stoned.

Forget the complaints

Complaints are like little daggers to your heart . Complaining about everything that happens to you by locking yourself in victim mode will only make you feel pain in your soul. Maybe it’s a sunny day and you just see the gray cloud that appears on the horizon without thinking about all the possibilities that this beautiful day offers you.

Do not hold on to your misfortunes. Let the negativity flow when it appears in your mind, but don’t let it linger over you. Do not live through your failures, learn from them to grow as a person in all aspects of your life.

The only way to fail is to quit

The only thing you cannot forgive yourself is not having tried things … but trying something and failing is not a failure, it is learning . The only way to fail is not to confine it again or cling to your fears. If you want to move forward, let nothing and no one stop you!

Let what you have failed to become your teachers and become your compass in life. Remember that if you try things, even if you fail, it will never be a mistake because you will be fighting to be a better person. There is nothing and no one to show you that failing is a bad thing, it is only in your mind to change that perspective . Take things as positive in your life and you will never feel like a failure again.

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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