To this day, many people think at all times that they have a lot of bad luck and that everything goes wrong. Just as there are positive people who see the good side of things in everything, there are others who, due to different circumstances of life, everything is against them and they become pessimistic about everything that revolves around their life. Then we explain that thinking that everything is against you is not real and that it depends on your actions and your own behavior to make everything go well for you and things start to go the right and favorable path.

Good and bad luck

People who ask themselves the famous question of why everything goes wrong at all times, think at all times of bad luck and bad luck, they are usually people installed in negativity and pessimism. If the person thinks the same at all times, it is quite normal for him to attract negative things and the stars align against him in his daily life. Always thinking negatively is a real torture for that person and can lead to fatal consequences on an emotional and psychological level. They live continuous episodes of stress and anxiety, in addition to suffering from a depressive disorder.

Unfortunately, many people have the bad habit of blaming bad luck for all their problems. Such people do not fight, they give up and lower their arms prematurely, which can become a serious problem since it can lead to planning about their life on the subject of depression . However, it is up to that person to turn everything around and transform those negative thoughts into positive ones and attract good luck.

How to attract good luck

Good luck and success do not come alone and you have to work hard to make sure everything goes well. It is up to us that everything turns 180 degrees and what was bad before is now good and positive. So, why is it that you think that everything is against you and everything goes wrong ?:

    • We must start from the basis that nothing is eternal and if things go well, they cannot be maintained for life. It is clear that there will be good moments and other bad ones, so you have to know how to get up and go back to look for what makes you happy and optimistic on a day-to-day basis. Life does not remain fixed and is in constant motion, the good and the bad taking turns at certain times. That is why it is quite normal that there are bad moments in your life, without this meaning that everything is against you.
    • The locus of control is an expression widely used in the field of psychology, and it is another reason why you may come to believe that you attract bad luck. There are many people who, when encountering different problems in their lives, think that they are not due to behavior and end up attributing them to the bad luck they may have at that time. The end result is great helplessness and the feeling at all times that everything is going wrong for you. Given this, it is very easy to lower your arms and give up, however it is up to you and your way of acting to change the course of things and your own destiny.
  • Entering into a spiral of negativity and pessimism makes the person forget that there are also experiences that have been positive and pleasant. You do not have to stay only with the negative, you have to be selective and also stay with the positive aspects of life. Forget about the bad things and always focus on what has made you happy since in this way you can realize at all times that thinking that everything is against you is not entirely true. Experts on the subject advise making a list of all those moments that have made you feel happy and comfortable throughout life.

In conclusion, not everything is against you. Life is constantly changing and what is black today can be white tomorrow. Bad luck does not exist and it is up to you that things go well for you and that everything is not against you. It is useless to lower your arms and say at all times that everything is going wrong. People are the ones who make with their actions that life goes to a favorable point or that things go wrong.

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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