Many women experience motherhood every day and although with different experiences , moods and opinions, most assure that their children are one of the most precious things they have in their lives. And it is that there are quite a few who say that being a mother changes life and that you cannot explain the feelings you experience until you face your own motherhood. Therefore, how do you know if you want to be a mother? ¿ Where to find the motivation to be ? What is the reason for the refusal to face a motherhood? There are many questions around this topicand that concern women, especially those who are already in older ages and therefore have less time to face their pregnancy without problems or problems.

On the other hand, as mentioned above, there are many women who are not determined to take the step of being mothers since they do not have the desire to do so. The reasons for this refusal can be many, but in general, the most common are usually the following:

    1. Social pressure: This is usually one of the reasons that torments women the most about motherhood and is that they feel conditioned when it comes to being a mother by society or by what experts recommend. And it is that, although it is true that there is a known biological clock of women, but as such there is no age at which a woman is obliged to be a mother. However, the questions of relatives, the motherhood of friends that surround the aforementioned or other types of circumstances and aspects that occur in society make women feel overwhelmed with this issue and completely decline the possibility of their lives. to become mothers. It is therefore recommended that each womanlook for your ideal and ideal moment to become a mother trying to get away from all the prejudices and models that society often seems to impose. In the end, the child will be cared for by the mother and the father and therefore it will be they who must consider what is the best time to have that responsibility and life experience.
    1. Economic factor: Although it may not seem like it to many, this is one of the factors that most set women back when it comes to becoming mothers. As is logical, a mother wants to be able to give everything she needs to her child and sometimes, due to work or economic circumstances, she does not have enough capacity to raise a child as she would like. Therefore, it is recommended to think before having a child that you will be able to take care of him. However, it is also advisable not to discard the idea of ​​becoming a mother for this aspect since although you cannot have all the luxuries , the most important thing is that children have what they need to grow up with health and love.
  1. Family problems and conflicts: Sometimes one does not grow up in the best circumstances or the best environment. In addition, not all children are affected by things in the same way and in some cases, family problems or conflicts experienced during childhood or more mature stages, can be a decisive reason for the woman when it comes to rejecting being a mother. that she does not want her children to go through hard times like those that the aforementioned went through. For example, a divorce or parental separation. In addition, many times the woman also decides not to face a motherhood due to the fact of looking from one side to the other and seeing problematic cases or difficult situationslived between parents and children or during motherhood. However, it is important to bear in mind that each case is different and that something specific does not have to happen. Being a mother is an experience that does not always bring positive moments but it is good to give yourself the opportunity to take what life can offer.

Ultimately, each woman must decide about her motherhood and face the consequences of her decision always in the best way. There is nothing written about this and neither of the two decisions will be positive or negative since it is a unique and personal choice and experience .

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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