Do you feel like you are stuck in a rut, but your mind is full of ideas and wishes for the future?  Learn these easy techniques to get what you really want easier and faster!

Usually we seek happiness without analyzing what really makes us happy, how to formulate our wishes effectively, and how to act to fulfill them. By following the basic rules of the law of attraction, we can get what we want and get results quickly.

Decide what you want

To get somewhere, we have to choose a destination!  If you haven’t decided on one, all destinations seem fine. It is the same when deciding what makes us happy . If you don’t know what makes you happy or what would make a big difference to you right now, then whatever happens, you will find it satisfying. Since that’s not the case, and you probably won’t find everything to be positive for you, it’s important to decide what you want.

Different people have different wishes.  Just because your friend would like to have a new car doesn’t mean that the same makes you happy. What is happiness for one may be misery for another.

Therefore, think about what is important for you to achieve or change at this time, be it an ideal home, a new phone, a job , another important person, new friends, a certain destination that you would like to visit, etc.

Be specific

When deciding what you want, be specific about it.  The reason people don’t get what they want is because they don’t specify their goals. To get what you want, it is essential to list the details that are important to you. It’s good to set a goal like having a bigger house. However, you wouldn’t want a bigger house in a bad or shabby neighborhood. That is why it is important to describe your ideal home in as much detail as possible.

Likewise, as much as you want to be in a relationship right now, it’s not a good idea to settle for anyone either … You certainly wouldn’t want the other person to be abusive. Some people want their partner to be at home a lot, others enjoy a more outgoing personality. Therefore, be specific about the characteristics that you consider important to your partner.

Focus on the positive

It is important to set your goals in a positive way!  That way, you pay attention to what you want to achieve. A good example is: I have a beautiful big house on the outskirts of the city, with four rooms, a big garden, etc. This way you focus on your ideal state. 

A bad example would be: I want to lose meso. The second example is bad because you are focusing on something that has a negative association for you. Also, you are focusing on losing rather than gaining something. To reverse this, formulate a goal with attention to a positive state for yourself, such as having a fit body. The winning formula is to focus on something you want, not what you don’t want.


Believe you can have it, and you will! The goal must be achievable from your perspective. It is not what is realistic in your country or for your friends, neighbors, but what you think is possible! In general, each goal can become a reality. If a human being has done it before, anyone can achieve the same. There are no limits.

If you know someone who has the job you want (I mean anyone in the world; people you know personally or saw on TV), it means that you might as well have it. However, you have to believe it. If you think you are too old, do not have the proper education, or are too shy to get that job, home, relationship, etc. ideal, then your reality will confirm it. You will not achieve your goal due to reasons that you yourself have decided to believe.

Act like you’ve already made it

Act like you already have what you want. Pretend until you get it. If your goal is to be more confident, act like it, even if you don’t feel it yet. Think about how a confident person walks or talks. What would they wear? How would they act in this or that situation? So, act like this. If you already know that person, impersonate them.

The law of attraction does not know if you are acting, remembering or daydreaming.  Just respond to your emotions right now. Therefore, act as if you have already achieved your goal, and the law of attraction will provide it for you.

Let it happen

A very important ingredient in getting what you want is letting it happen. Your task is to ask, but how it happens is none of your business. It’s like ordering a meal in a restaurant. You have chosen your order. A chef will do it and a waiter will bring your order. You don’t have to wonder if the pasta is boiled correctly. You certainly don’t go to the kitchen to check how much salt was added. You sit and talk with your friends until your order arrives.

If you are stressed out about your goal and constantly think you need it now, or wonder whether or not it will come true, you doubt it. The emotions that you send are the ones that you will recover. You will ask more and you will doubt more.

That is why the important element is to allow the universe to bring what you ordered in a restaurant.  We achieve our goals faster if we are calm and relaxed because it shows that we believe it will happen. 

Do not be afraid of change, much less if you want that change to really happen in your life. If you are not very clear about what you want to achieve, then do not hesitate to write your wishes in a notebook. Remember that it is important that you be as specific as possible so that when it happens, you know exactly what you want and what you don’t want in your life . From now on you will know better what you want and you will begin to walk the path of life to achieve it. 

Elle Mcdonald

I am Elle Mcdonald Specializations in Psychology . Graduated in psychology from the University of Tennessee in 2000. Diploma of Advanced Studies in the Department of Personality, Evaluation and psychological treatments with excellent results.

First Level of Master in Clinical Psychology at the Center for Behavioral Therapists (recognized with a scientific-professional nature by the College of Psychologists)

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